*hugs* augh! Suck! I'm sorry, darling! I'd only be repeating what's already been said, so I'll be succinct (especially since I am most sleep-short and brain-dead) I know so truly what you're talking about, because I'm the same way -- of course, I'd never been able to describe it as well as you did in this post. Whenever I want something really dreadfully I go very, very quiet, which drives me crazy because then people assume I don't care, when I *do*, beyond words, literally. *hugs tightly* I can only imagine how hard this must be for you, and it rips my heart in two to contemplate it. I wish words could make it better! But these incomprehensible kind of things happen, sometimes, and I know it's harsh, but I think the best thing would be to let it go. I know it'd be easy to worry at it constantly, try to unravel WHY, but ... it really wouldn't help, and would probably just make you miserable. I know it's next to impossible, but sometimes we just have to accept things, and move on. I don't even know if I myself can do this, honestly, it being something I need to work on rather much ! But it's good advice for all that, mostly because it didn't originate with me. =) *hugs* hold on, dear, things will get better, and you are not invisible, although it probably feels like it.
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Date: 2007-09-28 02:04 pm (UTC)*hugs tightly* I can only imagine how hard this must be for you, and it rips my heart in two to contemplate it. I wish words could make it better! But these incomprehensible kind of things happen, sometimes, and I know it's harsh, but I think the best thing would be to let it go. I know it'd be easy to worry at it constantly, try to unravel WHY, but ... it really wouldn't help, and would probably just make you miserable. I know it's next to impossible, but sometimes we just have to accept things, and move on.
I don't even know if I myself can do this, honestly, it being something I need to work on rather much ! But it's good advice for all that, mostly because it didn't originate with me. =)
*hugs* hold on, dear, things will get better, and you are not invisible, although it probably feels like it.